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STOP CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK

Do we really look at life through our own eyes. Think about it. Do we go through life doing things that we think will please others or do we do it to please ourselves. That can be a question really hard to answer truthful. Myself included. We go through life worrying about what others might think of us without thinking about if this is what we really are doing. Ask your self this very question, what is the thing that you never want too many people to know about you. You don’t have to say it out loud. That is a part of caring what others think. I sometime envy people that live life so freely seems like they don’t answer to anyone. They live in there truth. I admire people that don’t let their truth. I like the I did it admit it now lets move on type of attitude. I think people that are unapologetic for what they feel they need to do in life are the best. Now I’m not saying those that hurt people in the process but those that live life how they feel they should. I see a lot where people don’t do things that they want to do because of what someone might think of them. That type of thinking can stop so many good things from transpiring in your life. Take me for instance I write poetry and short stories I enjoy doing that a lot. There are people that are really close to me that I don’t share those things cause they don’t see my vision. I don’t stop writing but I also don’t share what I do with my writings because I care if they don’t like it. As I just typed that last sentence I just realized how dumb that sounded, but it was the truth. For years I have stagnated my talent for fear that others might thinks something else. The older I get I know see that I need to walk into my own destiny live in my own truth. I pay my own bills I wake up in my body everyday. I should do what is right for me. I don’t want my obituary stating that I lived my life how others wanted it. I want it to be how I saw fit and had fun doing it.

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